Gaining more with less

It has been a very interesting summer so far. Ever since I ditched my timeline of major life goals, I've been feeling free and at ease. Not a lot of people get the privilege of getting the summer off from work and school, but besides the hot weather, the summer for me is a time to travel, learn new things, and recharge so I can tackle a new school year.

For the first time in many years, I didn't plan anything for this summer other than a quick weekend trip to Washington, DC. After I got back, I had nothing scheduled on my agenda. I went with the flow and to my surprise, I gained more by doing less and having little to no expectations.

Things I've gained:

For the first time in a very long time, I woke up after 9:00 a.m. every morning and I didn't feel guilty for "wasting" my morning.
I didn't go to the gym and for some reason, I managed to lose about 5 lbs. How is that possible? I have no idea!
I spent more time with my little nephews. I learned that they are little persons with likes and dislikes and since they are older, they are more enjoyable to be around with in public.
I read a book from start to finish and I enjoyed it very much. I still need to read the book's sequel (maybe next summer) :)
I got a part-time job that I will officially start as soon as I pass my state licensing exam.
An unexpected job interview came my way for a job that I had completely forgotten about. (I had applied over a year ago!) I went to the interview but didn't feel that I did well on it. At least I tried my best.
I took an exam for a possible county position that could lead to a new career. I'm currently waiting for the test results.

When speaking to my best friend about my summer, I realized that I haven't felt this way in a very long time. I am content with who I am and where I am. I've always been a "planner" type of person most of my life, and this summer I gave myself permission to keep moving forward with no real destination in mind. After all, sometimes in life, the journey is what is most important.

My summer vacation is almost over now but this year is turning out way better than I thought. I'm looking forward to seeing what hidden surprises are in store for me.

Thanks for reading,
Mayra :)

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